If you are facing an unhappy relationship, there are some things you might do. First, you might do nothing and keep things just the way they are. You can continue on your path of misery. Those around you might become miserable, and you may continue along this path until you find yourself in a worse situation. So why does this situation occur? It's the simplest thing to do that’s why. It's easier not to do anything about the situation. It’s too hard to turn a bad partnership or unhappy relationship around. While it may seem noble, is it a bad decision to try and stay?
What Are the Options?
An option which involves staying in the relationship will be to work on the problems that pertain to the unhappy relationship. This step does require a full commitment by both parties. Results of anything less will be bad if not worse than trying to stick it out. Again, this step requires the commitment of your partner as well. This is the most challenging part of the situation but it can lead to the best solution. If your partner is not committed in the repair of your bad relationship, then all attempts to repair it are doomed.
Another possibility is to leave but you already know that this can also be difficult to do because of the expenses involved. If you don’t have a job for instance, how will you support yourself? If your friends or family support your decision, you can possibly stay with then until you can get back on your feet. Let's face it, tough decisions have to be made. Unhappiness, fighting, depression, are all results of an unhappy relationship. This does bring you down, but it will also have a negative effect on those around you as well. So, you have to overcome all that by taking that first step towards resolving the matter. My father would say, "Let us reason together."
Do You Need Help?
If you feel the need, you can seek out the aide of a therapist or a coach. Mental stress in an unhappy relationship can be helped with the aid of a therapist. However, don’t let yourself be talked into taking pills for your problem. That can lead to a whole new set of problems. Society today has a pill for every problem, and that’s a problem! If you need to work on strategies for repairing your situation, then you should instead find a coach. Someone who will work with you to develop strategies to get the success you need.
Take action when faced with an unhappy relationship. You have a choice, stay and repair things with your partner, or move out and move on. Therapists and coaches can provide you technical support, while your family and friends can provide you with the network support you need. All that’s required is an effort to do what you feel is right for you and your loved ones.
If the two of you aren't compatible then it's time for you to move on, no matter how painful it might be. It's simply not healthy for you to reinvent yourself for every relationship you have and it is a good way to find yourself in one abusive relationship after another.
Women
Instead of talking or arguing your way through an issue, try using a more psychological approach. Men respond more positively to your actions. They want to know that they are capable of making you happy. A man who is constantly faced with an upset partner will begin to think there's nothing he can do to make you happy, so he'll withdraw even further from you, even to the point of breaking up.
Women need to remember that men place more value on actions rather than words. This means a woman who constantly tries to get her partner to address problems in the relationship by talking about the issues or arguing about bad behavior is almost certain to see an increase in those negative patterns.
However, if he's faced with a happy, confident partner who is a pleasure to spend time with, he's less likely to withdraw. In fact, he'll likely draw even closer because he enjoys being around you. Men in this situation will often find themselves doing whatever they can to make sure you stay as happy as you were on those occasions. If you find it difficult to raise your self-confidence, then try giving yourself a mini-make over or spend some time doing something you enjoy. When you feel good within yourself, you're more likely to radiate that confidence outwardly as well.
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